Daniel was walking Webster in the gardens surrounding his apartment house.
A little girl of two or three was very excited to see Webster. Webster was also
very excited to see her and jumped up enough that the little girl became
frightened and started to cry. The mother picked up her child and told Daniel
not to worry. Daniel sat down on the pavement with Webster to show the little
girl that she didn’t need to be afraid, that Webster was gentle. Daniel stayed
there on the sidewalk petting Webster and talking to the little girl until she
became more comfortable and slowly and cautiously came to join them on the
sidewalk. Soon the little girl was laughing as Webster licked her hand. Daniel
could have said that he was sorry and could have left when the little girl started
to cry but he wanted to be sure that this child would not be afraid of dogs in the
future.
Daniel and I were on a subway train into Philadelphia. There was a homeless
man standing in the aisle with bags of belongings. Nearly everyone else on the
train was seated. When the train came to a sudden stop the man fell over. All the
passengers remained seated either not noticing or pretending not to notice the
man’s difficulty. With no hesitation, Daniel jumped up to help the man get up,
collect his bags and get safely off the train.
Daniel was in line behind an elderly woman at the check-out counter at a
pharmacy. He overheard the woman arguing with the pharmacist about the price
of the drug she wanted. She ended up leaving without buying it. Daniel, not
wanting to embarrass her in the store, followed her out to the street. He stopped
her and said that he had overheard her conversation with the pharmacist and
knew how expensive drugs could be. He said that he had just received a bonus
at work and would have no problem getting her prescription for her. Daniel had
not received a bonus but wanted her to feel comfortable in accepting the money.
Observations of Daniel and his sensitivity to those around him.
Daniel had a way of making many of his acquaintances feel important. An elderly
man in his eighties walked by our house every day. He had been a professor at
St. Joseph’s University. Daniel always showed an interest in him and addressed
him as “Professor”. Now I do too.
A car mechanic that Daniel used he called, “Doc.” I’m sure showing that respect
made the mechanic feel good, especially because he had so many physical
limitations.
Two neighbors had cancer. Daniel did not avoid them but spoke to them
comfortably as he always had. He was also kind to the husbands after their
wives died. One of Daniel’s greatest gifts was his ability to make people feel
special.
All of these short stories are indicative of Daniel’s care for those around him,
even when they were strangers or people he did not know well.
What a wonderful son you raised!
If this world had a modicum of the love, empathy and kindness that Daniel exhibited, we would not be in the situation we are in today.
It sounds like Daniel did not have an ounce of hatred, mean-spiritedness and destruction that we see all around us today.
Thank you so much for sharing these stories. Even though I did know Daniel, I feel like I am meeting him through your posts. xo
Thanks, Diana. At his best Daniel had wonderful values. He would have acknowledged that he was far from perfect.
Beautiful examples of such a caring,warm and kind man. He is such a perfect example of the meaning of the saying” do unto others as you want them to do to you. “
Elida, you raised a real mensch. May his memory continue to always be a blessing.
Sending you hugs and thinking of you always, especially around this time of year.
Thanks, Pearl. He really did want a fair world.
Daniel really did care for everyone – friends and strangers alike. I know he’s inspired me to be more caring and generous.